Monday, April 25, 2011

Fasika (Easter) in Ethiopia

EASTER AROUND THE WORLD- FASIKA IN ETHIOPIA



Ethiopian Orthodox Church
Lalibella Crosses

Ethiopia, the oldest independent nation in Africa, is a land of stunning natural beauty, and hosts a rich diversity of people with many cultural backgrounds, values, ethnicities, and religions! In a region dominated by Islam, Ethiopia has remained the only Christian nation in Africa that co-exists with Islam peacefully. For centuries, many invasions by Islamic warriors have proven futile, as they were counter-attacked by the many Christian kings who led the people to victory in these wars. To this day, Ethiopia remains a country with a majority Christian population and a considerable coexisting Islamic community. It is fascinating to see how the country survived the various negative influences in the region to become peaceful.

The Ethiopian Easter, also called Fasika, is one of the greatest festivals of the Ethiopian people, celebrated with its truest meaning after 40 days of fasting. All churches (both orthodox and protestant) preach and practice the reason behind the celebration. The Christian community in Ethiopia consists of a majority of Orthodox Christians (the type of Christianity that has existed for centuries in the land) and the vibrant and growing Protestant Christians who came to the scene about half a century ago. There are basic similarities in the way Easter is celebrated in both congregations. The one unifying belief is that both accept Christ as the Messiah who came to save the world from sin and gave His life for the redemption of souls. Both also believe that He is coming back to rule the earth from Jerusalem, the Holy City, according to Bible prophecy foretold thousands of years ago. Both congregations celebrate this special occasion with great anticipation and in a way that highlights the climax of the Christian faith.

In the physical aspect of things, it is very common for families from both religions to slaughter a lamb in remembrance of what the Israelites were commanded by God to do as they were leaving Egypt in the Torah (Old Testament), led by Moses into the Promised Land. Some regions of the country even slaughter their lamb by the door posts of their houses, strengthening the meaning all the more.






At the Easter service all Ethiopians wear a traditional white clothes, called Yabesha Libs.


The week before Easter is commemorated as the week of the Celebration of Hosanna or Palm Sunday, when Christ came into Jerusalem sitting on a colt with multitude waving palm tree leaves. It is customary to tie palm tree leaves on foreheads or make temporary ornaments from the leaves during this day by the Orthodox Christians. In the days that follow after the Hosanna celebration, many in the Orthodox faith go to churches and prostrate themselves a number of times in the church to atone for their sins.


In the Protestant churches this season is seen as a special occasion to reflect on the price that has already been paid by Christ to atone for the sins of the world. Thus, this season calls for reflection into one's lifestyle and considering whether one is living up to the liberty purchased by Christ. Protestant churches also believe strongly that Jesus is the only way to the Father and that no other way can lead a soul to the one true God. Fasting and prayer is also practiced by both churches. In the Orthodox Church, a 40-day fast from meat, eggs, milk and all dairy products ends on Easter Sunday.


The main religious celebration takes place on the night before Easter Sunday. It is a somber, sacred occasion; many protestant churches hold over-night services and people remain there with candles and warm clothing. The service commences at 9:00pm and around 4:00am – 5:00am, singing starts and a very joyous celebration of the rising of the Lord Jesus Christ from the dead is celebrated 'till morning! In recent years, it has become a norm to hold special services in the stadium bringing several denominations and churches in the Protestant faith together.


In conclusion, Easter in Ethiopia is a very vibrant and splendid religious festival that unites all Christians from all walks of faith and allows them to focus on the central theme of Christianity.


By Dawit Habtamu, an Ethiopian student in Addis Ababa
(copied from http://www.villageviewpost.com/2010/04/easter-fasika-in-ethiopia.html)





Family Easter Pictures

This year we decided that we would go to Holy Saturday services at our church. The mass started at 8:15pm (15 minutes after Muluken's bedtime) and we walked out at 10:55pm. Yes, that is not a typo. We were really there for almost 3 hours.

After about 30 minutes into the service, Muluken was getting tired. I put him on my lap and told him it was OK to rest his eyes. It didn't take him long that he was snoring. And SNORING loud! People started turning around at least 2 pews ahead of us. Cassie got embarrassed and told me to wake him up! LOL! I couldn't believe he could sleep through all the singing and clapping. He did wake up around 10pm, so I took him out and laid him down on a couch. He snuggled in until everybody else joined us.

On Easter morning, the kids all had fun looking for their TWO baskets. The boys found monster trucks in their baskets and the girls each received a movie in their basket. Though, Cassie never found her basket until we returned from celebrating Easter with everyone.

We went to Aunt Kris' home and ate a huge brunch. The boys started playing football in the very wet grass and of course Justin and Muluken both came in looking quite muddy! The kids also had an Easter egg hunt in the basement where they each had to find 12 eggs of a certain color. After leaving Kris' home, we visited with Grandma Rucks and the kids had to find 4 more baskets.

Without saying, we have WAY TOO MUCH candy in this house! I'm sure I will be finding wrappers all over by the end of the week!

Here are our family pictures from Saturday evening:





Friday, April 22, 2011

Pictures...

Yes, we received seven new pictures of Tinsae today! What a perfect way to start our long weekend. He's so adorable! He still isn't smiling, but he doesn't look too unhappy this time.



I can't post his pictures online yet (not until he comes home) but I will share a picture of the most adorable little hands and little toes. Oh my gosh, he is just so cute!


April Snow Storm

Wisconsin was blessed with ANOTHER winter snow storm. Too bad it's SPRING and April!

We didn't receive any school delay or closing, but we did get an awesome winter wonderland for about 12 hours!






Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Noah's First Turkey





I'm so proud of my little man! It took two weekends and some VERY COLD mornings, but he finally bagged this big one!

CONGRATULATIONS Noah!!!

Monday, April 18, 2011

The Wait...

Our dossier was received at Holt International's office in Eugene, Oregon on Friday, April 8th. Since that time, all we have done for the adoption is wait. We haven't received any new emails, mail, or phone calls. Not that I expected to hear anything, but I am hoping that our dossier makes it to Ethiopia in record time and we receive an email that we are submitted to court. I know we are a few months out before that might happen, but I sure would love a surprise!


I can't help my mind from wandering throughout every day and night. I think about the long flights to Ethiopia. I think about how long Tinsae has been in care. I think about how big he will be and if he is happy. I wonder what his laugh sounds like and how tall he is. I wonder how soft his curls are and what his toes look like.



I worry about traveling to Durame by myself, since Brad won't be returning to Ethiopia on the second trip. I worry about bringing Tinsae home by myself. I worry about how we are going to afford the plane tickets and hotel bill. I worry about what to pack and what I will do with Tinsae at the hotel all by myself. I worry a LOT!



So, what does a person do to keep busy?

I take my kids to the mall to walk. I go to work. I clean my closets. I call my family and friends. I surf the Internet for anything adoption-related. I love on my pets. I buy more pets (baby goats). I watch a lot of HGTV and any reality shows. I play on my iPad. I pray. I pray a lot. I thank God everyday for my family and I ask him to keep Tinsae safe, healthy, and happy. I ask him to hold him and love him.



The wait. It is so hard. I pray for patience with this process. Patience...I really need help with this!

Today starts a new week. This week I want to remember Easter and the importance of Holy Week. I want to continue praying for Tinsae, but I also want to continue to think about Jesus and everything he did for us.


Ethiopian people have so much faith. You could feel their love of God. Muluken has such a true love for God. When he talks about Jesus, his eyes light up and he gets excited. I have learned so much from him within myself.


Patience. Holy Week. Adoption. Tinsae. Muluken. Ethiopia. Family.


Telling myself to just BREATHE.


Taking one day at a time...and waiting...

Friday, April 8, 2011

Dossier to Holt (DTH)

That would be adoption lingo to say that our completed, notarized, authenticated, and copied dossier arrived at Holt International in Oregon today! Everything is in place and is ready for the next step.

The next step, according to Holt today, is to "obtain a state certified cover letter and then send the dossier to be authenticated by the US State Department and Embassy of Ethiopia".

So what does that all mean?!?!?  It means that the dossier will be going on a trip for about a month and then hopefully landing in Holt Ethiopia's hot little hands. All we can do is WAIT.....again.....WAIT!!!

We are now praying for a court date in July! That would be a dream come true. The Ethiopian courts close for August and September due to the rainy season, so that means that if we miss getting a court date before August, we will have to WAIT until October or November. UGH! That would mean that Tinsae would probably not be home until 2012.

But, we're going to stay optimistic and wait for that July court date! It's hard to imagine Tinsae being in the care center for so long, but we're trying our hardest to bring him home!

So, to finish off this monumental day...we received THREE NEW PICTURES of Tinsae today. He's still not smiling and looks so very sad. I just want to pick him up and hold him tight. Maybe even give him a tickle or two.

Finally!!!

Today we received our fingerprint approval letter from USCIS. Our i600-a was logged in on January 27, 2011. We had our fingerprints taken on February 16, 2011. We have bee waiting ever since.



It has been so frustrating, depressing, aggravating, maddening, etc. There have been so many days that I have come home from work, just to check the mail to see that our letter was still NOT here. Ugh!


So, after getting totally excited for about 5 minutes, I decided I needed to get the dossier to Holt International ASAP. That meant that I needed to make some more photocopies of some papers and then it needed to be overnighted to Oregon.

So, I headed to the Fremont Library to make copies. After that, I headed to Appleton. I went to the FedEx Building near the airport. Almost $62 later, our dossier is on it's way to Oregon.


We are now another step closer to bringing Tinsae home! 

Thank you God!

Sunday, April 3, 2011

Birthday Fun...

Even though my birthday is today, I've been celebrating with my family since last weekend. My Noah made me a big Sunday dinner last weekend: old-fashion cherry-chocolate milkshakes, stuffed mushrooms, steak on the grill, potatos, and smores pie. Yum-yum!! It was awesome!!

Yesterday I spent a few hours with my best friend, Dorinda. We went to my favorite restaurant, Red Lobster. We ate in the bar, on the special fish table, and talked for almost an hour and a half. Then she drove me around Appleton, Neenah, Menasha and Darboy, looking at potential apartments for herself. I can't wait until we can go "IN" the apartments and check them out.

This morning, I woke up to breakfast in bed. Eggs and hashbrowns and a cold Diet Dew. Brad and the kids gave me a few more charms for my bracelet that they gave me for Valentine's Day. They were perfect!

Then, we took a trip to Iola to pick out my "other" birthday presents. Here they are:





They are fainting goats and are just adorable! We bought two little boys. We haven't named them yet, but we're working on it! :)

We then celebrated at Culver's for lunch and then watched Brad play in the WF alumni basketball tournament. It was pretty entertaining!

Jordan made my birthday cake, which will be served tonight for dessert!

It was a PERFECT birthday!! (Even if the weather was really yucky!!)